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Self-talk: the power of positive affirmations

6/24/2014

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“Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.” ― Henry Ford

Self-talk is that inner running dialogue we have with ourselves.  It’s that voice that says, "You sure are handsome" or "You are going to have a great day". It might say, “You look like crap today" or "You sure have gained a lot of weight”. The voice can be positive and optimistic, or negative and critical. It can exaggerate, discourage, and drain our energy with ruminating thoughts or it can inspire and uplift and strengthen. Which voice will you choose?

Our self-talk has a great influence on our emotions, actions, and ultimately our personality. To change our attitudes we must change the inner dialogue. Positive affirmations are a form of positive self-talk. By saying them repeatedly to yourself, you can make a direct impact on your subconscious mind, which eventually accepts them as reality.  Positive affirmations challenge negative beliefs that undermine and replace them with positive self-nurturing beliefs. It is a kind of "brainwashing" only we get to choose which negative beliefs to wash away.

Positive affirmation exercises have been shown to have a broad range of beneficial effects. They can buffer stress by reducing rumination in response to failure and our reactivity to social evaluation. Positive self-affirmation boosts our self-image, increase self-esteem and self-regulatory strength and enables one to transcend self-image concerns. They can help change harmful behaviors or accomplish goals, and they can also help undo the damage caused by negative scripts, those things which we repeatedly tell ourselves that contribute to a negative self-perception.

For an affirmation to be effective, it needs to be present tense, positive, personal and specific. Repetition is also a key tool.  To get started:
  • Think about your positive attributes, what negative scripts you want to counteract and what positive goals you want to accomplish.
  • Prioritize your list of things to work on.
  • Write your affirmations using “I am”, "I can" & "I will" statements. Stray away from words like "always" or "every". 
  • Make your affirmations visible: write them on 3x5 note cards around your house, write them on sticky notes and place them in your car, on your mirrors, etc.
  • Make a point of writing your affirmations in a journal or diary each morning when you wake up or at night before you go to sleep. Some people benefit from repeating them aloud.

If you're interested in learning further techniques, check out Shad Helmstetter's book What to Say When you Talk To Yourself.

What are your affirmations? It's a challenge to practice affirmation exercises regularly, but I try. As I just started a new job, one of my current affirmation is"I am strong and intelligent and will succeed at all I attempt".  I also enjoys saying "Rejoice evermore", "I choose love  here", and "I am at peace". Some great ones for weight loss include: "I accept my body shape and acknowledge the beauty it holds", "I am grateful for the body I own and all it does for me.", and "I love and care for my body".

Remember, the mind is a powerful force: "We do not see things as they are, we see things as we are.” - Anais Nin


2 Comments
Tim
6/25/2014 04:53:13 am

Great post Andie! Belief in oneself via positive self affirmation makes a huge impact, I say things like "I am fast, I am quick, I am strong" while working out and even use it to get into a rhythm while running. Visual cues are huge and I should start practicing that as well. A chapter in "The Art of Mental Training - A Guide to Performance Excellence" by DC Gonzalez emphasizes positive self talk along with improving mental toughness. I'll have to check out the book recommended in this post. Thanks!

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Andie
6/25/2014 02:01:00 pm

Thanks Tim! I think I could have incorporated that affirmation on my run at the Benicia State Park yesterday :). I will definitely check out that chapter you mentioned and incorporate visual cues as well - our brains can't tell the difference btw what's real and imagined anyhow, let's dupe ourselves to greatness! xox

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